Why I Can’t Understand Wanting to Be Normal

 Websters dictionary defines Normal as conforming to a type, standard, or regular pattern. If you worry about others perception of you, then you will never grow as a person. 

Too often we define what’s acceptable of ourselves based on what others are doing.  Have you ever been held accountable for something you did and immediately responded with “but this person did it”?  You have goals and dreams things you would give anything to achieve, but no other person in the world shares exactly the same dream. They shape their behavior and day to day actions based on their own goals and dreams.  When you conform to what’s thought to be “Normal” you limit yourself to achieving average results.


I don’t know about you but I don’t want to settle for average, I want extraordinary.  So I’m different. everyday I make decisions that others don’t understand.  So I make mistakes, but they’re my mistakes. I no longer make the mistakes of others, chasing the right to “fit in”.  I make decisions based on the dreams and beliefs that I hold most important to me.  I’m sure there are quite a few people who think I’m weird, different, or crazy.  Personally, I hope they do.  I don’t fear being different, but I’m terrified of being average.

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